Dealing with Doubt

Experiencing feelings of doubt is normal for any birthmother. Doubts may increase towards the end of her pregnancy or during her hospital stay. A birthmother may also have her doubts years after placement. A birthmother will always have moments when she wonders how things may have been different. It is important to note that having doubts is a normal and healthy experience. A birthmother should be honest with her self and take the time to consider and explore her doubts. Only when she investigates where her doubts come from, will she be able to gather peace of mind.