Responsibility Builds Character

Assign your child age-appropriate responsibilities including feeding the dog, setting the table, clearing the table, and yard work. This not only prepares them for the world, but helps build self-esteem.

Utilizing Goal Charts

Using goal charts with an attainable goal and reward helps a child stay focused, motivated, and on task.

Children & Family Pets

Until you are comfortable and sure about your child´s behavior, watch them around family pets. Adopted children can harbor feelings of anger and are at a loss as to how to release it.

Quality Assurance

Put a night aside to spend time with your child playing games, watching movies, writing, reading or working on a craft project.

Supervision

Even if your adopted child is of an age that they can be left alone - DON´T! A child can easily become confused and not perform at their age. Until you are certain that they are responsible alone, don´t leave them unattended.

Understanding Cultures

Your adopted child may be a different race or nationality than the rest of your family. Celebrate the holidays and cultural celebrations of your child´s ethnic background as well as your own culture. It is important that they recognize their heritage.

How Do Children Learn?

The first requirement is "to internalize the good." Parents can be firm, demanding and kind. The most successful parents use warm tones and physical intervention, while remaining firm. Parents need to realize that discipling a child is not bad, it´s necessary.

Juggling Work/Family

Teachers and those involved in the school system usually have summers off. This is an excellent work schedule that allows you to spend time with your kids and not depend on daycare.

Remain Composed

Try to remain soft spoken and calm when dealing with disciplinary issues. Children will respond quicker and become less frightened if you can keep your composure.